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Friday, July 26, 2013
Tuesday, July 23, 2013
Thanks Again Heartmath
Did you know that heartfelt appreciation can facilitate the healing of the human body and spirit?
Sincere, heartfelt appreciation uplifts, inspires and drives us to achieve that which we did not think possible.
Why not try a simple Appreciation Exercise right now. It only takes a minute – we think you will be surprised by the results.
Appreciation Exercise
Heart
Breathing: Focus your attention on your heart area, and breathe a
little deeper than normal, in for 5 or 6 seconds and out 5 or 6
seconds.
Heart Focus: Imagine breathing through your heart. Picture yourself slowly breathing in and out through your heart area.
Appreciation
List: Make a list of things you appreciate – people, places,
activities, pets –and choose one or two each morning to hold in your
heart during the day. Choose an item again at night to hold in your
heart while you rest.
How
do you feel? Do you notice a greater sense of ease, wellbeing or
relaxation? Want to go even deeper? Try incorporating greater
Appreciation into your life in these simple ways:
Appreciation
Breaks: Take two or three appreciation breaks each day – ideally in
early morning, during work, school, returning home or before bed. Just
follow the above simple steps. It takes as little as two minutes to
achieve mental, emotional and physical balance.
Appreciation
List: Make a list of things you appreciate – people, places,
activities, pets – and choose one or two each morning to hold in your
heart during the day. Choose an item again at night to hold in your
heart while you rest.
Appreciation
in the Moment: Keep your Appreciation List close all day, in a pocket
or purse, by your computer or elsewhere. In stressful moments, choose an
item that can quickly evoke appreciation. It can turn a stressful day
into one that flows – in 30 seconds or less.
"I’ve
learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what
you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." – Maya
Angelou
Engage
the power of your heart to generate and sustain feelings of
appreciation to help increase your own welling-being. Practicing these
appreciation exercises accelerates your connection with your own heart.
Appreciating ourselves and others helps restore the color to our
black-and-white perception of life.
By
simply activating a positive feeling of sincere appreciation, you can
increase your heart rhythm coherence, reduce emotional stress and
improve your health.
Friday, July 19, 2013
Thursday, July 18, 2013
Saturday, July 13, 2013
The Future
Future: one
morning it
will appear,
right there on
your breakfast
plate, and you'll
yell "Take it
back," pounding
the table.
But there won't
be any
waiters.
Everette Maddox
Siren
Siren
by Robert Hass
Here is the poem I meant to write
But didn't
Because you walked into my study
Without any clothes on.
I had just been thinking of how the Aegean sun
Must have lit up the faces of Troy's fallen heroes
When you walked into my study
Without any clothes on—
Walked in and stood there,
Holding a glass of sherry
Over your left breast,
Which looked soft and firm as Brie.
Your tone of voice this morning
Should have warned me
That you might walk into my study
Without any clothes on.
I should have lashed myself to my chair
And stoppered my ears with wax.
But I forgot.
And I'm glad I forgot
Because when you walked into my study
Without any clothes on
You sang sweetly, sang sweetly,
And I died nobly, like a man.
The Buddha's Father
The
way in which you are part of the web of life, of incarnation, is
around the dimensions, you could call it, of compassion, suffering or
dealing with suffering. That when you have a society that is built on
the denial of other people’s suffering, for the myths of the
society to be lived out, you have a very frightened society, and you
have all the pathology that comes from fear. And what is the fear is
that people are afraid to look at. You got cancer, there’s inner
city violence, there’s somebody starving. The first part is just
acknowledging what is – just acknowledging what is. And what you
will see when you sit down quietly is how frightening it is to
acknowledge what is. That has to do with your suffering and it has to
do with everyone else’s as well – including the earth.
There
is a story of the Buddha and the Buddha’s father. The Buddha’s
father created a castle which was a protected environment to keep the
Buddha, the young Gautama, from seeing suffering. Because the father
knew that if the son saw the suffering, the son wouldn’t become the
next king. The son would be busy finding out how to end suffering –
which is what happened. And that’s just such a simple story, and it
just works. Because it says, here’s a person that came along, that
had everything. And then he saw through the cracks, and he saw that
everything was in relation to everything else. He saw that a lot of
people were just scrambling for food, or for survival, or for warmth,
and dealing with loneliness and alienation. And what kind of contract
you make with people’s suffering determines how happy you can be as
a human being. And the funny thing is, the model most people function
under is, “If I open to their suffering I won’t be happy.” And
the truth is, if you don’t open to their suffering you definitely
won’t be happy. And there may be a way to open to suffering and
still be happy. And I firmly believe that is true; were it not, I
wouldn’t be in the position I’m in, in my work and in my life.
Because what I find is the closer I stay to the truth of people’s
suffering, my heart opens, and by allowing myself to feel it, the
more I experience that I am part of the living truth. I am part of
the living spirit of the universe. And then I do what I can.
The
trap is, if you’re identified with being a do-er, your predicament
is that when you see suffering you feel you’re supposed to take it
away. And if you can’t take it away you feel inadequate, and you
fear feeling impotent in the face of suffering. Your heart’s
breaking and there’s nothing you can do about it. Well that’s
true most of the time. And if that’s true most of the time and you
can’t stand it, most of the time you can’t stand yourself and it.
The fact is, I can’t take away people’s death and suffering when
I’m working with their death and suffering. But I can be a presence
where they can shift their consciousness in a way so they don’t
experience their death and suffering the same way. But I can’t take
away all the stuff from people. And the ability to be with somebody
where your heart is breaking because they’re suffering and you do
not have the power to take away that suffering… and the feeling you
have under those conditions has got to be reflected upon. You have to
take the time to reflect upon that, in order to find peace within
that situation.
~Ram
Dass, October 15, 1995
Friday, July 5, 2013
Soul Questions
Soul
Questions
Do
I perceive the world around me through the perception of my shadows
or my graces?
Am
I stuck in the “what's the meaning of this and why did this happen
to me?” or am I willing to KNOW that it's not about the wound?
Am
I willing to continue to ascend in my journey of empowerment?
Am
I fully aware that the search for reason produces minimum benefits?
Do
I hang onto my scar tissue and suffering in order to justify
feelings of entitlement?
Is
my heart wrath-filled?
Do
I protect myself from love with anger?
Am
I only willing to hear good news?
Do
I think I deserve only sun with no moon?
What
thought forms do I indulge in when I'm in darkness?
Do
I indulge myself by psychically drugging myself with negative thought
forms?
Do
I mistake a spiritual crisis for a psychological one?
Have
I given my thought forms gravity making them dense?
Does
my fear of humiliation cause me to fall to pride, even hubris?
How
are pride and fear of humiliation effecting my choices?
Do
I empower never enough thought forms?
Have
I committed a sin of conscience by deliberately meaning to hurt
someone?
Do
I believe I'm entitled to special favors?
If
so who do I think I am?
Do
I harp about fairness as if I know what it means???
Wednesday, July 3, 2013
The Mustangs
Mustangs are a mythic symbol of freedom, heroism, romance, and limitless possibilities, an iconic symbol of America running free under blue skies.
Monday, July 1, 2013
ARIZONA VETERANS' RESOURCES
Chinle: Chinle
Vet Center Outstation
Navajo
Route 7, Old BIA Complex-B59
Chinle,
AZ 86503
Mailing
Address:
P.O.
Box 1934
Chinle
, AZ 86503
Phone:
928-674-3682 Or 877-927-8387
Fax:
928-674-5640
Normal
working hours are 8:00am to 4:30pm Monday through Friday. In an
effort to better serve the veteran and family members, upon request
Vet Centers will provide services after normal work hours and/or on
weekends.
Hotevilla:
Hopi Vet Center Outstation
Hopi
Vet Center Outstation
P.O.
Box 929, 1 Main St.
Hotevilla,
AZ 86030
Phone:
928-734-5166 Or 877-927-8387
Fax:
928-738-5531
Normal
working hours are 8:00am to 4:30pm Monday through Friday. In an
effort to better serve the veteran and family members, upon request
Vet Centers will provide services after normal work hours and/or on
weekends.
Lake
Havasu:Lake Havasu Vet Center
1720
Mesquite Ste 101, P.O. Box 3237
Lake
Havasu, AZ 86403
Phone:
928-505-0294 Or 877-927-8387
Fax:
928-854-5239
Mesa:
Mesa Vet Center
1303
South Longmore, Suite 5
Mesa,
AZ 85202
Phone:
480-610-6727 Or 877-927-8387
Fax:
480-464-3526
Normal
working hours are 8:00am to 4:30pm Monday through Friday. In an
effort to better serve the veteran and family members, upon request
Vet Centers will provide services after normal work hours and/or on
weekends.
Peoria:
West Valley Vet Center
14050
N. 83rd Avenue Suite 170
Peoria,
AZ 85381
Phone:
623-398-8854 Or 877-927-8387
Fax:
623-398-6478
Normal
working hours are 8:00am to 4:30pm Monday through Friday. In an
effort to better serve the veteran and family members, upon request
Vet Centers will provide services after normal work hours and/or on
weekends.
Phoenix:
Phoenix Vet Center
77
E. Weldon Ave., Suite 100
Phoenix,
AZ 85012
Phone:
602-640-2981 Or 877-927-8387
Fax:
602-640-2967
Normal
working hours are 8:00am to 4:30pm Monday through Friday. In an
effort to better serve the veteran and family members, upon request
Vet Centers will provide services after normal work hours and/or on
weekends.
Prescott:
Prescott Vet Center
3180
Stillwater Drive, Suite A
Prescott,
AZ 86305
Phone:
928-778-3469 Or 877-927-8387
Fax:
928-776-6042
Normal
working hours are 8:00am to 4:30pm Monday through Friday. In an
effort to better serve the veteran and family members, upon request
Vet Centers will provide services after normal work hours and/or on
weekends.
Tucson: Tucson
Vet Center
3055
N. First Avenue
Tucson,
AZ 85719
Phone:
520-882-0333 Or 877-927-8387
Fax:
520-670-5862
Normal
working hours are 8:00am to 4:30pm Monday through Friday. In an
effort to better serve the veteran and family members, upon request
Vet Centers will provide services after normal work hours and/or on
weekends.
Yuma: Yuma
Vet Center
1450
E. 16th St, Suite 103
Yuma,
AZ 85365
Phone:
928-271-8700 Or 877-927-8387
Fax:
928-726-1343
Normal
working hours are 8:00am to 4:30pm Monday through Friday. In an
effort to better serve the veteran and family members, upon request
Vet Centers will provide services after normal work hours and/or on
weekends.
PTSD
PROGRAMS
AboutFace
Northern
Arizona VA Health Care System
500
North Highway 89
Prescott,
AZ 86313
Phone:
928-445-4860 Or 928-445-4860
PTSD
Clinical Team (PCT) Outpatient
Louise
Holt (928) 445-4860 X 6708
Women’s
Stress Disorder Treatment Team (WSDTT) Outpatient
NA
(928) 445-4860
Phoenix
VA Health Care System
650
E. Indian School Road
Phoenix,
AZ 85012
Phone:
602-277-5551 Or 800-554-7174
PTSD
Clinical Team (PCT) Outpatient
Karen
Kattar (602) 277-5551 X 2507
Substance
Use PTSD Team (SUPT) Outpatient
Karen
Kattar (602) 277-5551 X 2507
Southern
Arizona VA Health Care System
3601
South 6th Avenue
Tucson,
AZ 85723
Phone:
520-792-1450 Or 800-470-8262
PTSD
Clinical Team (PCT) Outpatient
David
Beil-Adaskin, Psy.D. (520) 792-1450 X 4299
PTSD
Day Hospitals (DH) Intensive/Inpatient
N/A
(520) 792-1450
Women’s
Stress Disorder Treatment Team (WSDTT) Outpatient
Nadine
Cole (520) 792-1450 X 5127
Evaluation
and Brief Treatment of PTSD Unit (EBTPU) Inpatient
Nicholas
Heinecke (520) 792-1450 X 6394
Useful
Hotline Numbers & URLS
- Veterans Crisis Line1.800.273.TALK (8255)
- Military Crisis Line1.800.273.TALK (8255)
- National Call Center for Homeless Veterans 1.877.4AID.VET (424.3838)
- 838255 TEXT TO CHAT
- VA Caregiver Support Line 1.855.260.3274
- Wounded Warrior Resource Center 1.800.342.9647
Phoenix
Downtown
3333
North Central Avenue, Suite 1052
Phoenix,
AZ 85012
Phone:
602-627-3261
Fax:
602-627-3275
Toll
Free: 800-852-VETS (8387)
Antoine De Saint Exupery - The Little Prince
"And when your sorrow is comforted (time soothes all sorrows) you will be content that you have known me. You will always be my friend. You will laugh with me. And you will sometimes open your window, so, for that pleasure... And your friends will be properly astonished to see you laughing as you look up at the sky! Then you will say to them, "Yes the stars always make me laugh." And they will think you are crazy. It will be a very shabby trick that I have played on you."
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